The authentic facade…


The public library in my hometown was among my favorite buildings to visit as a little girl. Leading up to its grand entryway were smooth steps from either sidewalk direction; I can still hear the soft tss-tss-tss of my little soles landing and sliding a smidge at each rise. The opposing sets of stairs met at a platform facing the enormous doors, and the imposing limestone edifice welcomed me into its world of literary delights like a stern grandfather with a playful heart. 

When I was in my teens, it was razed in favor of a new structure a few blocks away. But the destroyers left standing the great limestone facade which still adorns that block forty-plus years since, now surrounded by rejuvenated green space. 

An old friend once opined that leaving the fragment behind seemed silly to him. I could not see it more differently. To me, it is a brilliant gesture of admiration for an architectural exemplar of that era, as well as a connection to childhood. The sun is always shining in my memories of those library visits, and a glimpse of the gray face still warms the little girl in me. 

In contrast to how we often think of the term, there is nothing inauthentic about the facade. It is beautiful and true; it’s just that other parts of the old library can no longer be with us. They remain present by way of the mind’s eye.

I have been present here at the Chronicle less frequently while I’m working on a longer project, an endeavor that also entails the mining of memory. Along the way, I keep probing the reasons for wanting to get the story out. I don’t wish to merely idealize the past or, heaven forfend, get ‘stuck there.’ 

Rather than trying to hang onto something it might serve better to let go of — the harder we grasp at the past, the further away it flies anyway — I mean to treat the looking-back as an entryway to understanding in the present. Beyond taking stock to celebrate what I can, and to mourn what I must, a return visit to an earlier era furnishes a foundation for interpreting the self and the story as I go.

Perhaps my friend isn’t considering such a foundation, instead seeing the library facade in isolation, out of its element. It makes less sense with no context, and I suppose could make its familiarity stale rather than reassuring. 
But to those who chose to preserve the piece, it must have represented a connection they expected the populace to find ongoing resonance with.
It certainly does for me, both in terms of the community and personally. It is alive and informing — and represents a dot on the map between who I was as a little girl and who I am now. 

Another dot on the map has to do with inner rooms rather than outer walls, with home settings rather than public ones… 
When I was a young mom searching for a flat to rent, there were very few places I looked at that I didn’t instantly take to. I loved the experience of looking for a place, of inspecting barren spaces begging to be furnished. I think now it was about reveling in the sense of potential. Reimagining myself and my belongings in fresh environs augmented a hopeful spirit. 

As with the diverging impressions of the library facade, I suppose the same blank rooms that projected eager readiness to me could evoke in others emptiness and abandonment. 
But to this day, I still like peering into empty apartments ready for new tenants. I tend to envision what could be on the way to fill them more than to rue what is no longer there.  
(I am, of course, moved mournfully by what’s no longer there in other frameworks. Those are different dots on the map.)

From the excitement of exploring the library, to the hopefulness of picking out a place to live, to the relative settledness of my situation at the moment, I’m reminded that the story is still in motion. 
And as quickly as it passes, every era of our days, down to this micro-moment, instantly freezes like a statue into the story — becoming snapshots in place of potentialities. Yet there is malleability in how we continually interpret them — in how we make sense of the points that stand out, in the arcs we highlight in the retelling. 

While I take care to avoid living in the past, in recounting its gifts and losses and themes, I hope to preserve what is solid and beautiful about the architecture there.

Am I asking a question?…

That thinker doesn’t look very comfortable. 
Leaning back in a rocker — now that’s my preferred contemplation pose, knitting needles clacking or netbook keys tapping.

Thinking about thinking, writing about writing, posing quandaries, positing solutions. 
That’s some of what i had in mind when i conceived of this site years ago, in particular with the Ruminations tab. 
To me the term has always had an agreeable association with “a reflective thinker characterized by quiet contemplation” [Free Dictionary].

For obvious linguistic reasons, i recently wondered if there could be a relationship to the thirteenth century Persian poet Rumi. As fitting as that might be, the theory apparently has the lamentable disadvantage of not being rooted in fact. 

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Analogies are like…

That’s it, end of quip.

I thought of it as i was considering what writing is like, and what this year has been like.
Writing is gazing back and forward at the same time.

The raw material of experience and imagination forms an idea… 
In shaping that idea for an audience, i’m looking ahead toward how the past-birthed notion might connect with the reader.
Even if i am its only reader, my future self usually takes something fresh from rereadings of past private expressions. 

Personal essay writers and bloggers perpetually distinguish between the “I” and the “we” to decide which of our thoughts to impart. 
Two kinds of intimate writing i bristle at…
Starting too many sentences with the phrase (or attitude), “We all…” 
Or starting too many sentences with “I” — if they end without drawing me in. 

The question is, What makes any one person’s thoughts of interest to another?

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Half-deserted streets…

“A tedious argument of insidious intent…”

I recently saw this phrase used as a social media tagline — and it wasn’t a T.S. Eliot account. It struck me as a pleasing expression; i didn’t immediately recognize its origins.

I should have. I studied Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” in college, though that was admittedly more than a few years ago.

Looking up phrases online, mine and others, is something i make a habit of in order to properly attribute them or to make sure one i’m about to use is original.

Rather than assume its social media user had concocted this one herself, the online search for this snippet rewarded me with a reminder of Eliot’s stunning craft. 

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What’s your blog about?

It’s about how the end justifies the memes.

Ok, that’s not a serious answer — although it’s true that this blog does include the occasional meme.

Over the years, i’ve given a fair amount of thought to answering the query concisely — starting with concocting the tagline about reflections. 

When i began blogging, i’d had little exposure to the blogosphere in general. I simply set out to write about what interests me, hoping to make it interesting to others.

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Lane change ahead…

Don’t you hate it when you miss your turn-off?

Yes, i know, many of us use GPS now. But i still like to study a map at home before heading to the airport.
I tend to become anxious about catching the information in time to get to the lane i need, so it calms me to have an aerial view in mind as i’m trying to follow the signs and instructions.

The idea of planning for changing lanes came to mind when i noticed the date first thing this morning. Today marks seven years since the name change which precipitated the title of this blog.

I like it when dates sneak up on me like that. This anniversary wasn’t one i’d been looking ahead toward, as i’m prone to do, hand at forehead shading my squinting eyes.

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